Me&u is one shared place for two people: a daily check-in, games that settle the small stuff, and every detail worth remembering about each other.
Most arguments aren’t about dinner. They’re about not knowing the other person had a rough day. A ten-second check-in fixes more than it looks like it should.
Mood and battery, once a day, with a streak you build together.
Coin flip, spin the wheel, date setter, trivia and movie matching.
Sizes, allergies, favourite flowers — the things worth getting right.
Date nights and anniversaries, with reminders for both of you.
Turn “we should do that someday” into a list you tick off.
Your photos, in a space only the two of you can see.
An AI coach for the conversations you’re not sure how to start.
Know the moment they check in or finish a game, wherever they are.
Mood and social battery, once a day. It takes ten seconds, and it tells your partner whether tonight is for going out or staying in.
Getting by. Something low-key sounds good.
A coin for who’s being the bigger person. A wheel for where you’re eating. A date setter for when neither of you can choose, and a trivia game that proves who was actually listening.
Who picks dinner?
In the app, one of you holds the coin per session, so nobody re-rolls until they win.
A little wiki about each other: sizes, allergies, favourites, the dream trip. You fill in theirs, they fill in yours, and the home screen tells you how much you know.
Tap a card to reveal what Sam wrote down.
For the conversation you’re not sure how to start. Ask an AI coach, attach a screenshot if it helps, and keep the whole thread to yourself.
We keep arguing about chores. How do I bring it up without it turning into a fight?
Add the day you got together and it lives on your home screen. Try yours:
Generic planners assume a team. Family apps assume five people. Me&u assumes two, and knows that some things belong to just one of you.
Ada’s hub, as Sam sees it:
A check-in is two taps. The rest is there when you want it.
Games and nudges, not homework and worksheets.
Your hub is for two. Some things are for one.
Reminders nudge. They never nag or keep score against each other.
No subscription required. Premium is optional, and it’s per person — you can subscribe without your partner, or the other way round.
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Everything you need to show up for each other every day.
$1/ month
Less than a coffee, once a month. Cancel whenever.
Subscriptions are billed through the App Store or Google Play and renew until cancelled in your store account settings.
Yes. Every core feature is free, with small ads. Premium ($1/month) removes the ads and the daily limit on coach questions for whoever subscribes. It’s per person, so your partner keeps the free version unless they subscribe too.
Yes. Me&u is built for two phones. One of you creates a hub and shares a six-letter code, and the other joins with it. It works across iPhone and Android.
No. Your coach chats and to-dos are private to you, and that is enforced on our servers, not just hidden in the app. Check-ins, the calendar, the bucket list, the gallery, the details wiki and game results are shared.
Yes, that’s a big part of it. Check-ins, game results and nudges reach your partner’s phone the moment they happen, wherever they are.
No. The coach is an AI that offers friendly, general guidance. It isn’t a licensed professional and can get things wrong. If you’re in crisis or feel unsafe, contact local emergency services or a crisis line in your country.
Me&u is for adults. You need to be at least 18 to create an account.
We use it to run the app for you and your partner, and we never sell what you write. Free accounts see ads from Google, which may use your device’s advertising ID, and you can choose how that works. The privacy policy has the full detail.
Follow the steps on our account deletion page. We remove your profile and private data, and anything you shared stops being linked to you.
Download Me&u, send your partner the code, and check in before bed.
